DATING AND
CONFIDENCE
COACHING

Tailored for Professionals in Science, Tech,
Engineering, Medicine, and Entrepreneurship

12 WEEK IN-PERSON AND ONLINE MENTORING GUARANTEED TO GET YOU
2-3X DATES PER WEEK

Challenges Men in STEM & Minority Men Face

Even the smartest men in the world face invisible barriers when it comes to dating.

If you’re Asian, Indian, or working in a technical field, your childhood, culture, environment, and career path often create the exact opposite skill set needed for dating success.

Below are the real challenges most men in STEM or from minority backgrounds quietly struggle with—represented visually in the image above.

Mindset & Limiting
Beliefs

 When you grow up being measured by grades, job titles, and achievement, it’s easy to internalize the belief that you’re “not enough” unless you’re perfect.
 That perfectionism kills confidence, spontaneity, and masculine expression—core traits women respond to instantly.

Fear of Judgement — Especially From Family & Culture

Many Asian and Indian men grow up under intense pressure to avoid social mistakes.
 Your dating decisions feel like they’re being judged by parents, extended relatives, and your entire cultural community.
 This creates hesitancy, overthinking, and difficulty expressing your real personality.

Logical Conversations Instead of Emotional Connection

STEM-trained men excel in logic, systems, and precision—but dating requires emotional nuance, warmth, and presence.
 Most guys end up talking at women instead of with them, leading to low chemistry despite high intelligence.

Limited Social Circles Outside Work

 Tech environments are overwhelmingly male and work-focused.
 Your daily routine doesn’t naturally put you around new women, which means fewer chances to practice, build confidence, or develop dating intuition.

Language &
Cultural Barriers

 If English wasn’t your first language—or if you grew up in an immigrant household—you may struggle with jokes, tone, flirting, or reading social cues.
 This doesn’t mean you're unattractive.
 It means you were never taught the social operating system other men grew up with.

No Feedback
Loop From Peers

Most minority and STEM men don’t have male friends who actively date or give useful feedback.
 You’re basically flying blind, relying on guesswork, online advice, or random YouTube videos.
 Without real feedback, improvement is painfully slow.

No Framework for Physical Escalation

 Many brilliant men struggle with moving things forward physically—when to flirt, how to touch appropriately, when to kiss, how to read signals, and how to avoid being “too slow” or “too fast.”
 This is one of the biggest sticking points for intelligent men.

Career Mastery, Dating Neglect

You’ve invested thousands of hours mastering your career…
 …but almost zero hours mastering dating.
 The result?
 A brilliant professional life paired with a frustrating dating life.

JOIN THE OTHER 1400 HIGH ACHIEVERS
WHO TRANSFORMED THEIR DATING LIVES

Item 1
Item 1
Item 1
Item 1
Item 1
Item 1
Item 3
Item 4
Item 5
Item 6

WHY I CAN HELP YOU?

These challenges are real, but they are not permanent.

Once you understand the root causes—and apply a
structured system tailored for STEM minds and minority backgrounds—you can evolve faster than you ever imagined.

This is exactly why men come to me.

The 3-Pillar Dating Mastery Program

IN PERSON CONFIDENCE AND CONVERSATION MASTERY

Eliminate approach anxiety, hesitation, and fear of rejection. Develop natural conversation flow, calibrated flirting, and real-world confidence through guided infield training. Learn what 95% of men can’t—and unlock unlimited dating opportunities.

PHOTOSHOOT + SOCIAL MEDIA & ONLINE DATING OPTIMIZATION

Get a full profile makeover that multiplies your match rate and boosts Instagram follow-back and message response rates. Professional photoshoot, archetype design, style audit, and optimized captions/presentations engineered to position you as a high-value, desirable man.

3-MONTH MENTORSHIP & HABIT REINFORCEMENT

Long-term coaching that keeps you consistent and prevents backsliding. Receive weekly support on approaching, texting, date setup, online dating strategy, and personal development. Build permanent confidence, better habits, and a lifestyle that continually attracts high-quality women.

The 100% Guarantee Promise.

Within The First Hour You Will Learn To Confidently Approach And Get The Number.

Within 48 Hours, You Will Be Able To Hold Lengthy Conversations, Learn To Isolate, Get Instadates And Pull.

Within 24 After Photoshoot, You Will Have a Top 5% Dating Profile And Instagram Account.

The continued online mentoring will prevent any reversion and only further dating refinement so you get 2-3 dates per week

Live Infield Coaching & Conversation
Mastery

Most men freeze when they see an attractive woman—overthinking, replaying dating theories, and imagining every possible outcome. Their brain overloads… and nothing happens.

This training fixes that.

Through real infield coaching, you integrate concepts with actual feedback. Anxiety turns into pattern recognition. Fear becomes familiarity. Conversations stop feeling forced and start feeling natural.

You’ll fly out for a full immersive weekend covering:

Pre-bootcamp
preparation Meeting

Theory and Lecture

Night Game And Day Game

Q/A Integration And Homework

Day Game Training

  • How to approach confidently in normal environments (cafés, malls, parks, gyms, travel).

  • How to create effortless conversations without running out of things to say.
  • How to get numbers, set up future dates, or even go on instant dates at a nearby café.

  • How to integrate approaching into your daily lifestyle so it becomes second nature.

Night Game & Social Venue Mastery

  • How to flirt, sexualize, lead, escalate, and avoid the friend zone.

  • How to handle groups, competitive environments, and complex social dynamics.

  • How to manage logistics and avoid mistakes that kill attraction.

  • How to build confidence in environments with faster pacing and stronger social pressure.

Final Debrief + Customized Growth Plan

At the end, we break down:

  • Your strengths

  • Your weaknesses
  • Your cognitive blind spots
  • Your behavioral patterns

You’ll leave with a personalized 3–6 month roadmap so you continue improving after the bootcamp—not plateauing or reverting.

Item 1
Item 3
Item 4
Item 5
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 1
Item 3
Item 4
Item 5
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6

Live Infield Coaching & Conversation Mastery

Photoshoot + Social Media & Online Dating Mastery

Today’s dating landscape is visual.

Instagram and dating apps act as the new first impression—and women evaluate men more than ever based on photos, lifestyle signals, and perceived status.

A strong online presence dramatically:

  • Increases match rate

  • Boosts response rates

  • Saves weak interactions

  • Creates passive attraction

  • Positions you as a high-value man before you even meet
  • Leave lose leads have dead contacts

Fashion, Style, Posing Planning

Photoshoot

Edit and Delivery

Instagram and Online Dating Integration

What This Includes

Full Social Media & Profile Audit

We evaluate:

  • Your physique
  • Style and grooming
  • Fashion and fit
  • Character archetype
  • Hobbies & lifestyle positioning

Then we design the most attractive, authentic, high-status version of you and build an archetype that women naturally respond to.

Professional Photoshoot (6–8
Locations)

A complete afternoon shoot featuring:

  • Multiple outfit changes

  • Poses, angles, facial expression coaching

  • Jawline optimization

  • Body language refinement

  • Portrait shots, full-body shots, lifestyle shots

Enough content to build or overhaul an entire Instagram or dating app from scratch.

Editing & Optimization

48-hour turnaround with:

  • Skin tone optimization

  • Blemish removal

  • Color and lighting enhancement

  • Cropping and selection strategy

Final Review Call

We select the best photos for:

  • Tinder, Bumble, Hinge

  • Instagram

  • Captions and bio copy

This is a full transformation of your online identity.

career+1 career+after
PhysiqueEnhance PhysiqueEnhance2
StyleEnhanceB1 StyleEnhanceB2
EditEnhance EditEnhance2
ReduceFOB ReduceFOB2
When+I+take+your+picture+versus+when+you+take+your+picture When+I+take+your+picture+versus+when+you+take+your+picture
Item 1
Item 3
Item 4
Item 5
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 1
Item 3
Item 4
Item 5
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6
Item 6

Photoshoot + Social Media & Online Dating Mastery

3-Month Online Mentorship

Most men improve for a short period… then slip back into old habits. Approach anxiety returns.

Momentum fades.

They get “some results,” get complacent, and stop doing what works.

The mentorship phase ensures that never happens to you.

Text, Game, Review

Approach Review

Date Planning

Relationship Help

Continual Self
Improvement

During These 3 Months You Get:

Ongoing Support for Approaching & Conversation

Every new interaction creates new questions.

We break down your infield attempts, text threads, and IG conversations so you never get stuck or confused.

Text Game & Online Dating Optimization

  • Message-by-message breakdown

  • Fixing dead conversations

  • Improving your win rate with matches

  • Strategic posting to re-engage old leads

Date Setup, Logistics & Execution

  • How to structure dates for maximum connection

  • How to avoid common mistakes

  • How to position yourself as the “rare man” she wants to see again

  • How to manage multi-date pipelines without overwhelm

Personal Development & Lifestyle Guidance

You also get support in:

  • Career

  • Travel

  • Fitness

  • Social circle

  • Life decisions that influence your dating life


This is where transformation becomes permanent.

My Story

1: The Beginning

I moved to the US as a first-generation immigrant and the only son of two parents who came to America after my father got a scholarship for a PhD program in Computer Science. English was my second language, and we moved constantly across the U.S. as my dad finished grad school.

Like many of you, I was raised in a world where success meant grades, test scores, and compliance. Childhood was textbooks, not social skills. While other kids learned how to connect, flirt, and build confidence, I was inside studying—two years ahead in math and science, deep in the International Baccalaureate program, and eventually earning a degree in Chemical Engineering.  During my academic career, I never went to Homecoming, Prom, or any college socials…

On paper, everything still looked ok…

In reality, I was 27 at the time, already working 5 years in a lab doing process validations but I had virtually no dating experience, no hobbies, no travel, and no real sense of identity. Life was passing by, and I felt completely unfulfilled.

2: The Transformation

I made a decision that changed everything.

For the next 15+ years, I ruthlessly invested in my personal growth and dating skills. I knew I had the intelligence and discipline—so I applied them where they actually mattered.

In 2011, I committed to a goal almost no one would dare attempt:
Approach 50 women every week for 100 straight weeks.

No excuses. No hiding. Just relentless action.
During this time, I also rebuilt myself from the inside out:

  • Bodybuilding and fitness

  • Public speaking
  • Improv comedy

  • Photography
  • Toastmasters
  • Mindset and peak-performance training
  • Tony Robbins program
  • Ayahuasca and spiritual work in Peru

And I invested heavily—over $100,000 in coaches, mentors, and structured self-development.

Dating became a holistic system, not random trial and error. Pattern recognition, psychology, and volume turned it into something I could analyze and master. My memory, curiosity, and STEM-trained mind helped me quickly profile people, read situations, and predict social dynamics within minutes.

I documented everything across 300+ videos on YouTube, which organically led to a following and the beginning of my coaching career.

3: Actualization

Today, I live in a state of freedom and abundance I once thought was impossible.

I’ve dated and traveled across 55+ countries, built deep self-awareness, and solidified the values that define who I am. Drop me anywhere on Earth, and within a few days I can create an abundant dating life—whether through in-person social skills or by leveraging social media and online systems.

Over the years, I’ve coached more than 1,400 men and completed over 3,000 coaching calls. The patterns became clear: brilliant men—especially Asians, Indians, and men in tech—tend to make the same predictable mistakes.

And they don’t need to struggle for 15 years the way I did.

If my story resonates with you…
If you’re tired of trial and error…

If you’re smart enough to know that high-level guidance collapses your learning curve…

Then I can help you.

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m a complete beginner. How do I know this will work for me?

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.

Most of the men who join this program start exactly where you are: academically accomplished, professionally successful, but inexperienced or underdeveloped socially because of upbringing, work focus, or cultural expectations.

Dating confidence is a learned skill, not something you’re born with.
When I began in 2010, I had a strict Asian upbringing, no social experience, a full engineering circle of friends, and only one relationship by age 27. I questioned whether transformation was even possible.

After thousands of real-world repetitions and over a decade coaching 1,400+ students across 55+ countries, the truth is clear:

With the right coaching, structured practice, and real-world feedback, any motivated man can build confidence, social calibration, and dating success—regardless of his starting point.

Being a beginner is not a disadvantage.
It simply means there is massive room for fast, measurable improvement.